There were times I did things that I didn't nornally to identify and provide support. Im a non smoker but did go have a smoke with my buddy when I sat with him after is divorce. Having a smoke ment "Hey I'm here for you."
My instinct has often been to make quick judgments, labeling people or situations as “wrong” to feel like I’m on the “correct” side. For instance, when I see someone in public who has made what I consider poor clothing choices, I find myself wondering, “Did they look in the mirror?”
But then I pause and remind myself, "Really, Russell? Who made you the arbiter of how others dress? It's none of your business. God created everyone uniquely. Let it go!"
I've discovered that learning to release that judgment means choosing love over the need to be "right" and appreciating the beauty of human differences and individual expression. It’s like looking through a kaleidoscope — turning it just slightly to see all the colors blend and form a stunning picture that reflects God’s creativity in each person. This shift in perspective helps me transition from critiquing to celebrating, allowing me to recognize the beauty in all of God’s children.
Your story has me reflecting: where else am I judging instead of loving?
Haha, "Really, Russell?" sounds like a great way to snap out of the judging trance. And it reflects your awareness, so important for a leader, a coach, and a writer!
Yes, where else are you judging instead of loving, and where might you still be attached to judgments you once made...?
There were times I did things that I didn't nornally to identify and provide support. Im a non smoker but did go have a smoke with my buddy when I sat with him after is divorce. Having a smoke ment "Hey I'm here for you."
That’s beautiful, Al, thank you for sharing!
Great question, Carolina.
My instinct has often been to make quick judgments, labeling people or situations as “wrong” to feel like I’m on the “correct” side. For instance, when I see someone in public who has made what I consider poor clothing choices, I find myself wondering, “Did they look in the mirror?”
But then I pause and remind myself, "Really, Russell? Who made you the arbiter of how others dress? It's none of your business. God created everyone uniquely. Let it go!"
I've discovered that learning to release that judgment means choosing love over the need to be "right" and appreciating the beauty of human differences and individual expression. It’s like looking through a kaleidoscope — turning it just slightly to see all the colors blend and form a stunning picture that reflects God’s creativity in each person. This shift in perspective helps me transition from critiquing to celebrating, allowing me to recognize the beauty in all of God’s children.
Your story has me reflecting: where else am I judging instead of loving?
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Haha, "Really, Russell?" sounds like a great way to snap out of the judging trance. And it reflects your awareness, so important for a leader, a coach, and a writer!
Yes, where else are you judging instead of loving, and where might you still be attached to judgments you once made...?
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Another great question, Carolina. Love it!