Dont tell anyone but deep down I am very passive aggressive. While I dont act on many of the plotting there is an Al that I call "Al Vader" that goes to the dark side a bit. This is done mostly at work to set boundaries with people who might be a little slow to learn what boundaries might be. To put it short, i might have them think it good to work hard and dig a hole. I will give them my full support and encouragement, and even them a shovel. The learning comes into play after they have dug a full size pool for a hole and feel good about the good work they did only to realize there was no reason to dig in the first place. After that they become great folks to work with. I am not sure if this would qualify as being nonviolent or not. But does create a good laugh and a sence of satisfaction. 😆
Dont tell anyone but deep down I am very passive aggressive. While I dont act on many of the plotting there is an Al that I call "Al Vader" that goes to the dark side a bit. This is done mostly at work to set boundaries with people who might be a little slow to learn what boundaries might be. To put it short, i might have them think it good to work hard and dig a hole. I will give them my full support and encouragement, and even them a shovel. The learning comes into play after they have dug a full size pool for a hole and feel good about the good work they did only to realize there was no reason to dig in the first place. After that they become great folks to work with. I am not sure if this would qualify as being nonviolent or not. But does create a good laugh and a sence of satisfaction. 😆